Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. I suggest you develop a busy calender so you'll be occupied because you'll get dizzy thinking in circles. That ended in OP should do the most honest thing possible. It may change your relationship to them forever. How church discipline works. I do not text or call him frequently-- I'll send him the occasional message, but generally I let him initiate contact and dictate the pace. Just trying to make it through the 3 week stretch of hour days of him at work Ok so I'm engaged to a doctor to be and let me tell y'all something, you might judge me or whatever but when things get hard I go out with my single friends and bring home all the numbers I received to show him, - he then has to choose between me or his case. My husband is a medical student, so I have a few years until I'm a "doctor's wife. I don't know why the system allows this type of treatment Not only do the residents feel like they "should" be giving every single bit of their energy, intellect, passion, soul to their residency programs, but they are told by their program directors, attendings and everyone else around them that they "must". All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity.
I'm firmly in the RUN camp. It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. This means that she will probably be dating others at the same time as you. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho.
I will keep reading, but it looks like most of the stuff about racism and polygamy has been "adequately" explained away by updates to LDS. Just let things keep going. She has opened my eyes to many parts of our national culture that are not in harmony with righteousness.
You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. This always seemed terribly wrong to me. I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. That was my experience. It's a heart-wrenching story. We have lunch and have each others undivided attention while the kids are at school. I will keep reading, but it looks like most of the stuff about racism and polygamy has been "adequately" explained away by updates to LDS.