I mean lots of his friends from residency have girlfriends or wives and make it work. It does not come from common religion or personality or even values; it only comes through mutual self transcendence. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us.
Find someone who is available to you and successful. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee. Religious affiliation is not the only criteria when selecting a spouse. I have only been living with him for a month. Single parent when I met her.
Moved into his house and it is hard to fit in. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. I do not see this going well. I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected. But now it also comes out that he resents my past negativity and lack of appreciation for his hard work I didn't want to talk about my issues with him because, as many of you have said, my little problems couldn't compete with what he was dealing with at work. You just can't imagine the heap o' hurt you're potentially setting yourself up for. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP.
He is extremely compassionate. Any advice is greatly appreciated. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. I have been married for 16 years to a cardiothoracic surgeon. Flirting Questions to Ask a Guy. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as they are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road. Again, though the evolving times may have brought about a relaxation in this rule, it is still followed by many youngsters.