I let her know it's not healthy to expect someone else to change - we can only control ourselves and not others. Our communication is almost gone to none, he needs a lot a lot of alone time to achieve his career while i am really worried that how much longer i can live like this!!. I'm so sick of waiting around every night and weekend to see if he will have a minute for me. He just saw someone die or gave a devastating diagnosis or did an incredibly complex surgery with potential complications. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. We DO live paycheck to paycheck. I am particularly tied to an area because of family and friends and he was set on selecting a list that was best suited for his career, not me.
Ask him if he's not seeing you to not commit. It's a heart-wrenching story. And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not. Where do you find Mormon girls.
Will he possible convert just to make you happy without really buying into it. They even refrain from tea and coffee. Take a breath, stop and think, is it worth destroying so many lives so you can step in and take the rewards after someone else does the hard work. He blames this on his hours for residency, and to be fair they are really long and insane. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. Everyone seems to think that I'm lucky to marry a doctor. I used to be religious when I was a kid. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember.
So, now I'm battling interview season with the fourth year dates and beginning of residency with the labor day date. He is an Anesthesiologist. They're hidden pretty deep on LDS. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. I was off travelling the world when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine. I wanted to be able to fully share my faith with my spouse, but this expectation was now up in the air. Right off the bat, I have to admit that being married and committed to our marriage has been of utmost importance for my husband and I - throughout all of his training. I recall reading a talk from Elder Nelson in which he indicated that the church teaches general principles and does not spend time teaching exceptions to general principles. You will have to make sacrifice your happiness a little. You've all been so helpful.